First Pregnancy Reflection

Now that I have had some time to reflect on my pregnancy, I wanted to share my thoughts.

My biggest takeaway from pregnancy was not to have expectations. The fewer expectations you have the easier it is to accept symptoms that just SUCK.

Hard. It was hard to work while feeling like crap. It was hard not knowing what to do to feel better. It was hard not being on my anxiety and depression medicine during pregnancy. It was hard not having my mom right down the road. There were a lot of things that were hard, but it was worth it and I came out stronger.

Blessed, very blessed. I learned more and more that there are women who have a hard time conceiving. I had an internal struggle that I dealt with almost every day because I would feel so crappy and complain, but would feel guilty because I was able to have a baby. I learned that it was okay to complain. I was not having an easy time and needed an outlet.

Do I miss being pregnant? Heck no! And there is nothing wrong with that. When I was trying to be positive, it was exhausting and honestly depressing, but I did it! I got through the pregnancy and have a beautiful baby boy. I will miss feeling his little movements and kicks because that is special. Knowing that I grew a tiny human showed me that I can do all things even when times get hard.

I don't want you to have this negative narrative on pregnancy if you are wanting to get pregnant. There are women out there who have an amazing pregnancy. One of my friends didn't really have any symptoms other than having to pee a lot and being tired (sounds heavenly, haha). Being pregnant is a beautiful gift and the end is even better. You will feel no greater love than looking down at your mini-me.

Preparing to be a mom is not required, but it helps to do some research. Reading about my pregnancy journey helped me understand the changes happening to my body and what to expect when giving birth. I took a breastfeeding class which was very beneficial. The night I started breastfeeding I was able to get him to latch and I believe it was because I knew what do thanks to the class.

While preparing for Bradley, I learned there is a huge, supportive group of mommas out there.

They welcome you with open arms and answer any questions you may have. I am so happy to be a part of that group knowing that I can help support someone in need.

I am happy that I can share my experience and so excited to continue in this new chapter of my life. Much love.

E